I just have to say

I am mightily proud of all my friends. They inspire me in more ways than I can imagine.

I am grateful to be able to learn from them – how they give of themselves, how they try their hardest to overcome shit in their lives, how they try their best to be kind even towards the unkind – it is not so much how they do it, but the spirit that spurs them.

Isn’t life amazing? Life brings us friends whom we can learn from. Friends to laugh and cry with us. Friends that just open up your world.

Eric, Dicky and Linda, I am inspired by you.

 

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Pupsie, as defined by the Urban Dictionary

A special person, for whom you’ve great and deep feelings. A pupsie is really cute and often say/does things which confirm this. It’s really hard to get mad at a pupsie.
Person 1:Where were you? You told me it would take like 15 minutes.
Person 2: I brushed my teeth, put on my pj’s and I annoyed my parents a bit 😛
Person 1: You’re such a pupsie 😉
Person 2: Yeaa yeaa 😀
What can I say. Pupsie truly lives up to his name.

自由

妹妹刚考完试,一个人出发去搭火车,目的地柔佛。

今晚回来吗,我问。 “不知道”,她还挺潇洒呵。

“所以你今晚没回来,我们不用打电话给你,是不是?”

“我要是没回来,会打电话给你们。”

老爸昨晚表示抗议:“你找个男孩子陪你去,我才让你去。”

“跟一群人去,未必更安全好不好?” 妹妹一脸不屑。

我只是旁观者,心里虽然觉得一个女孩子搭火车去马来西亚很不安全,但也只抛下一句“你就让她去咯”,便离开房间。

孩子长大了,你奈何得了她。

父母的心,只有为人父母者才能体会。

你可以说:“如果真的要出事,走在马路上都可能被突然被车撞,不需要等到出国。”

我也曾经说过这样的话。两年前就为了所谓的“自由”,先斩后奏的买了去台湾的机票。

菩萨保佑,我一路遇贵人,毫发无损,还玩的很开心。

现在的我, 想法有点不同了。

不顾父母的担忧,执意我行我素,追求所谓的“自由”,是不负责任的。

不屑的说出“要出事,随时都可能出事”这样的话,看似很豪爽,其实是很幼稚的。

因为要是真的出事,我们是无法做出任何弥补的。

留下父母为我们的一时任性,一辈子受罪,你忍心吗?

所以本来打算去曼谷,清迈,槟城的我和Puppy,因为泰国即将发生暴乱,也不去了。

只要家人放心,去哪里都是自由的。

Am feeling sort of lousy for having stayed in bed too long and for being mean to Puppy yesterday night.

I hope he isn’t too traumatised. I don’t know what came over me. It was a temporary mood glitch, then I became normal again.

The more time we spend together, the more we’ll reveal our hidden selves. Brace yourself for mine, Puppy. 😛

Our relationship has been rosy for the past five months (how time flies!) but I’m sure kinks will start to form and dissatisfaction over all sorts of things will surface.. it’s only natural isn’t it? I’ll need Puppy to iron them out with me and I find comfort in knowing that we both believe in open communication, and that we don’t need to be similar beings in order to be in love.

Was at forty hands cafe with Niki and Ching Wi and we chatted about how we see ourselves in five years’ time. I’ve had a relatively smooth sailing time and I told them quite frankly I don’t have a plan. Things just happen to me; chances come, I take them up. The only proactive thing I do: keep myself open to all possibilities and people even when I hear bad reviews.

How would I react in times of crisis? I’ve not had much practice. People around me are too kind and unfortunate events seldom befall me. I know I should be meditating seriously as my trained, clear mind is the only thing that can help me in a crisis, but I continue to neglect it. Only a crisis would tell.

最近听到好几个分手的故事,

两个人可以相遇,相爱,相守, 真的是很不容易的一件事。

感情不止要珍惜,还要用心经营。

我一直相信,两个人在一起,一定要成就彼此,一起成为更好的人

怎么说呢

我们都必须更清楚的看到自己的缺点,并尽量纠正过来

而不是意气用事的把对方当作让自己开心/爽/舒服的人

Love is wanting someone to be happy

Attachment is wanting someone to make you happy.

Our glorious PEP

Post Exams Plans!!

Starting TODAY wahahha…

21/12: End of exams dinner! Dharma lesson on emptiness at ABC

23/12: Watch Puppy fight with his friend (literally), stay over at NTU

24/12: Dinner at Puppy’s house

25/12: Family outing with Puppy, Christmas dinner at my aunt’s

26-29/12: Unplanned

29-??/1: Puppy comes to stay!!!

CNY 2011 (OK I know this is so not post-exams already): 3D2N Batam trip with Puppy’s family

June? (that’s PEP part 2): Taiwan trip!!!!! With Puppy and all the Pohs.

Mohohoho. The theme of our PEP is ‘Yayyy!!’

Yayyyy!!!! Can’t wait can’t wait!

我很贪心

跟我的小石头聊通宵

结果累得不成人形

谈恋爱真的要趁年轻啊!

而且今天花了大半天跟朋友吃早餐、午餐

回到家就昏迷不醒

我得快马加鞭啦…… 老板们开始催了

*流汗* 不能荒废工作!!!

……

小石头,能在每天睡之前还有睡醒后

听到你的声音

说晚安,叫我起床

真的很棒

(尤其爱你撒娇的时候;爱死了)

可是……

还是不够

我要见你

我要抱抱……